Published by JP on 22 Jun 2008
The Meeting Melee
Eric Brown wrote a piece about Meetings & Trust in his blog Eric Brown’s Blog discussing how a manager had a pre-meeting to a meeting to “shape” what information was to be discussed during that meeting with the boss’s superiors. I agree there are some trust issues with that manager and numerous meetings requested by the boss can be a sign of a lack of trust. Additionally, it could be a control issue. I know that control and trust are related, but the manager may be trusting of his people but be a micro-manager/dominant control freak who just can’t help himself. The manager could also just like to hear himself talk or feel he can justify his job more by these “important” meetings. It could be some kind of departmental power play to show everyone who’s the boss. Also, I know people who think that holding meetings will convince others how important and powerful they are (they aren’t, but they overcompensate for their inadequacies).
I have to say that I am lucky that I haven’t experienced that kind of manager that Eric discusses in his posting. However, I do work at a company who is in love with meetings. Sometimes we do have meetings to discuss having meetings. Very few meetings have a listed agenda, about 1-2% I would say. It never starts on time and the participants usually wander off topic –if we even know what the topic is. If I could cope with it, I could attend enough meetings every week that I wouldn’t ever get anything else done but attend meetings and be fully justified in doing so. However, I think we talk too much and do too little.
It seems that some people actually do like meetings. In this LA Times article the author discusses a study about people’s feelings toward meetings. Okay, maybe I shouldn’t say that I hate all meetings, just the unproductive ones. Regrettably, the unproductive ones outnumber the productive ones. The article as lists some suggestions to make meetings more productive. I know we could do better with our meetings by taking this advice.
- Always provide an agenda and distribute it before the meeting.
- Set realistic goals and objectives for each meeting.
- Don’t include everyone. Attend the meeting, or require attendance for the meeting, only if the information is relevant.
- Reduce the number of meetings, meet only when necessary and make it easy for employees to opt out of participating if their attendance is not critical.
- Provide meeting feedback and reflect on that feedback as a group.
- Record and distribute minutes for each meeting.
- Break into smaller groups for brainstorming.
- Distribute appropriate information before the meeting via e-mail, instead of during the meeting.
- Pay attention to timing and impose a time limit; meetings that are shorter and that start and end on time are less disruptive for employees.
On the effectivivemeetings.com website the have a 10 commandments section of meeting basics. The site’s “commandments” are similar to the ones from the LA Times article with a few good additions.
- Praise in Public, Criticize in Private
- Do Not Convene Meetings Outside of Normal Business Hours
- Do Not Use Group Pressure to Logroll Conclusions
- Do Not Use Meetings to Destroy Others’ Careers
- Keep the Personal and the Corporate Distinct
- Remember that the Best Model for Meetings Is Democracy, Not Monarchy
- Terminate a Regularly Scheduled Meeting When Its Purpose for Being No Longer Exists
Check out the related articles on Eric’s page because they have some good points about managing meetings and calculating the costs of those meetings. I have actually heard that some companies require an agenda, justification, and a total cost for the meeting be provided for a meeting to be approved. I’m not sure how productive that whole process is, but I’m sure it will make having useless meetings much harder.













